4 Strategies to Overcome Comparison in Relationships

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4 Strategies to Overcome Comparison in Relationships

Comparison can be a destructive force in relationships, often leading to dissatisfaction, insecurity, and resentment.

There is no iota of wisdom in comparing yourself on any level. In life, you should understand that you are not competing with anybody; you are only competing with yourself!

"For we dare not make ourselves of the number, or compare ourselves with some that commend themselves: but they measuring themselves by themselves, and comparing themselves among themselves, are not wise." (2 Corinthians 10:12 KJV)

As singles or couples, how do you escape the comparison trap as the initiator or the victim? Here are four strategies to escape the comparison trap and nurture strong, fulfilling relationships.

1. Do not compare your new relationship with that of your ex.

This can end a promising relationship quickly or bring unnecessary friction into a marriage. Let your ex be!

Never allow your ex to become an executive in your next relationship!

Comparing your current relationship to past ones can hinder growth and intimacy. Each relationship is unique, with its own dynamics and potential. Constantly dwelling on past experiences can prevent…