Know Your Own Values: What do you want in a relationship? If you're dating with the intention of marriage (and that's important to you), you’ll want to make sure your partner is on the same page. Don’t be afraid to have that conversation early on. Proverbs 16:3 says, “Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and he will establish your plans.” Keep your values rooted in faith, and trust that God will guide you.
Communicate Your Intentions: Whether you’re going for a laid-back vibe or something more serious, always communicate your expectations upfront. If you’re looking for something long-term, make that clear, especially in the early stages. Likewise, if you're into casual dating, it's better to be upfront about that too. Misunderstandings are the worst!
Blend Traditions with Technology: You don’t have to ditch dating apps just because you prefer a more traditional approach. Use them to meet people, but take your dates offline quickly. Enjoy a classic dinner date or a walk in the park. In the same way, blend modern communication (texting, social media) with traditional gestures (writing a thoughtful letter or planning a special evening). The best of both worlds!