Alright, here’s a little truth bomb: dating in your 30s and beyond often starts with some serious self-reflection. Before you can figure out who’s the right match for you, you’ve got to be clear about who you are. Yeah, I know, deep stuff.
Think about your past relationships. Were there any patterns? Were you constantly picking people who weren’t ready for commitment, or maybe you were the one who wasn’t quite sure? Reflecting on this helps you avoid repeating old mistakes. Plus, knowing your relationship goals enables you to stay intentional when dating.